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Sometimes I Get Stuck: A "Sunday Spotlight" Children's Book Review
Sometimes getting stuck is part of growing. In Sometimes I Get Stuck, young readers explore what it means to feel stuck physically, emotionally, and mentally, and discover gentle, practical ways to move forward. This heartfelt story offers relatable moments, playful illustrations, and meaningful social-emotional lessons about problem-solving, self-talk, and hope.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 254 min read


One of a Kind Creatures: A "Sunday Spotlight" Children's Book Review
A book review on One of a Kind Creatures, written and illustrated by Tasos Georgiou. This is a powerful and thoughtful story about belonging, differences, and discovering strength in what makes us unique.
This story introduces us to three very different animal friends, each struggling to fit into a world that expects them to be something they are not. Includes thoughts from a mom-counselor and strategies for expanding on social-emotional learning.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 184 min read


Sunsets & Sardines: A "Sunday Spotlight" Children's Book Review
A children's book review: Sunsets & Sardines: A Story of Unconditional Love, written by Heidi Elle and illustrated by Daniel Wlodarski
This story follows Sally, a sweet and determined girl whose deep love for sardines leads her on an adventure with her two loyal friends, Boris the Bat and Goat. As the trio sets out on their quest to find sardines, Sally experiences moments of frustration, disappointment, and excitement. When things don’t go quite as planned, she’s faced with
Jolene Phillips
Jan 185 min read


Dandelion Magic: a “Sunday Spotlight” Children’s Book Review
A children's book review of Dandelion Magic. Dandelion Magic is whimsical, imaginative, and quietly powerful. It follows a young boy who discovers that blowing dandelion seeds can spark incredible adventures, pirates, sea monsters, and even super grandmas. But when things go awry, and the boy is in trouble, he has to slow down and focus before making his final wish on the dandelion seeds.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 113 min read


Raising Little Humans on Very Little Sleep
As a counselor and a parent, days like this are a powerful reminder of a few important truths: behavior is communication, connection comes before correction, parents are allowed to be touched out, and repair matters more than perfection.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 84 min read


What Is Dramatic Play (and Why It Matters More Than You Think)
Dramatic play (also called pretend or imaginative play) is one of the most natural and powerful ways children make sense of their world. And while it might look like “just playing,” there is so much meaningful work happening beneath the surface. Learn more in this post.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 64 min read


Finnikan’s Big Move: a “Sunday Spotlight” Children’s Book Review
In this children's book review, I share Finnikan's Big Move. Finnikan’s Big Move is a gentle, reassuring story that normalizes the wide range of emotions children experience during big transitions. Fear, sadness, excitement, uncertainty, and hope all show up in realistic and age-appropriate ways. Rather than rushing Finnikan through these feelings, the story allows space for them, which is exactly what many children need when facing change.
Jolene Phillips
Jan 44 min read


When the House Shuts Down (and the Laundry Piles Up)
Balancing multiple children means someone has to wait sometimes. It means a child might stay upset longer than we want while we attend to another need. That doesn’t mean we failed. It means we’re human.
Emotional regulation isn’t about preventing every meltdown. It’s about repair. It’s about coming back together once we can.
Jolene Phillips
Dec 30, 20253 min read


"Sunday Spotlight" A Celebration of Being Yourself: A Children's Book Review
I Don’t Wanna Be a Dino follows Dougie as he tries to be anything other than himself, only to learn that who he is truly matters. With bright, engaging illustrations and a heartfelt message, this story gently introduces self-acceptance, strengths, and confidence for kids ages 3–7. A wonderful read-aloud that opens the door to meaningful social-emotional conversations.
Jolene Phillips
Dec 20, 20253 min read


"Sunday Spotlight" Learning, Community, and Finding Balance: A Children's Book Review
Set in the sweet community of Harmony Lane, Ready… Set… Frog! and Let’s Work Smarter explore balance, teamwork, and problem-solving in kid-friendly ways. These warm, beautifully illustrated stories help young children learn about helping others, working together, and finding what works best, at home, in classrooms, and beyond.
Jolene Phillips
Dec 20, 20254 min read


The October Overwhelm: How to Stay Grounded When Every Weekend Is a Fall Festival
There’s something magical about October, the crisp air, the smell of cinnamon candles, the promise of cozy sweaters and pumpkin everything.
But if you’re a parent, you also know this truth: October is the month when every single weekend seems booked solid with something.
Fall festivals. Pumpkin patches. Costume parades. School spirit weeks. Trunk-or-treats. Neighborhood hayrides. Apple picking. Pumpkin carving. Bonfires. Fundraisers. Oh, and don’t forget the family phot
Jolene Phillips
Dec 13, 20253 min read


Re-Introducing Me and Guided by Giggles
Re-Introducing Me + Guided by Giggles
It’s been a while since I’ve really shared the “why” behind Guided by Giggles, so I thought it was time for a re-introduction for those of you who’ve been around and an introduction for those of you who are new.
Jolene Phillips
Dec 13, 20252 min read


Teaching Kids the Power of Hello: A Review of Badi Blesbok Says Hello
Just got the sweetest book in the mail, Badi Blesbok Says Hello! My toddler immediately claimed it as his own (because obviously all packages belong to him) and loved shouting out the animal names and new greetings.
As a mom, I love how engaging and colorful it is. As a counselor, I really appreciate how it teaches kids that there are many ways to greet others, such as waves, hugs, fist bumps, and handshakes, and it’s okay to choose the greeting that feels right for you.
Jolene Phillips
Oct 16, 20257 min read


The Case of the Toddler Snack Heist
Last week, my toddler pulled off the ultimate fridge raid. Read about the hilarious insanity.
Jolene Phillips
Sep 15, 20253 min read


Our Dinosaur Museum Adventure: A Toddler’s Guide to Maximum Mayhem
Our trip to the Dinosaur Museum in Rapid City was more of a toddler-led sprint through prehistoric chaos than a calm tour. From mirror maze mishaps to a sand-filled fossil dig, it was equal parts hilarious and exhausting, but also full of hidden chances to practice patience, problem-solving, and impulse control. Turns out, dinosaurs make pretty great teachers for little life skills.
Jolene Phillips
Sep 8, 20254 min read


Visiting Reptile Gardens with Kids: Tips, Highlights, and Life Lessons
If you’re anywhere near Rapid City, SD, Reptile Gardens is one of those stops you have to make. It’s got everything: giant tortoises, sassy prairie dogs, birds, and enough snakes to star in an Indiana Jones movie. I’ve been twice now, and let me tell you, this place is not one of those “been there once, you’ve seen it all” attractions. Nope. I loved it as much the second time, and the kids? They thought they’d found paradise…reptile-style.
Jolene Phillips
Aug 24, 20256 min read


The Comedy (and Chaos) of Feeding Kids: Adventures with Toddlers and Picky Eaters
Whether your kid is a cautious eater like my step-son or a culinary daredevil like my toddler, the goal is the same: to raise kids who can have a healthy, flexible, and positive relationship with food. That means less pressure, more patience, and a whole lot of humor. Because if parenthood has taught me anything, it’s that food is rarely just food when kids are involved. It’s comedy, it’s chaos. So, pull up a chair, grab a napkin, and enjoy the show.
Jolene Phillips
Aug 22, 20258 min read


Parenting in the Waiting: Managing the “What Ifs” of Medical Parenting
Sometimes motherhood feels like a balancing act I’ll never master, holding one baby while my other cries, juggling a toddler, and carrying the weight of all the medical “what ifs.”
Today I shared my story of parenting twins, managing postpartum anxiety and depression, and learning to show up for my little humans even when I feel stretched thin. The giggles, the cuddles, the small victories, they remind me why I keep going.
You are not alone. The “what ifs” are real, the guil
Jolene Phillips
Aug 20, 20259 min read


“Who Would Do This If I Didn’t Exist?”: The Default Parent, the Mental Load, and the Household Olympics No One Signed Up For
Being the default parent means carrying the invisible to-do list, planning, remembering, and noticing everything that needs to be done, often without acknowledgment. It’s repacking the dishwasher, replacing the toilet paper roll, and managing the household’s mental load. This isn’t about “help,” it’s about true partnership and sharing the responsibility. This post features personal stories and practical tips for communicating with your partner to help balance the mental load.
Jolene Phillips
Aug 14, 202512 min read


A Day at Storybook Island: Where Fairytales Come to Life (and Husbands Become Pirates)
If you’ve ever wondered what it would be like to step straight into the pages of your favorite childhood stories…but with the added bonus of sipping your favorite source of caffeine while your kids run wild, let me introduce you to Storybook Island in Rapid City, SD. I also share some tools for helping your kids regulate their emotions on your trip and wagon accessories that are helpful for our family and might be helpful for yours.
Jolene Phillips
Aug 10, 20258 min read
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